Pornography can destroy a couple's sex life

Various studies have shown that with the prevalence of the Internet, most people are addicted to pornography. Not only in Nepal, the number of people watching pornography is high all over the world. According to a study conducted by a website, more than 300 million people worldwide are watching porn videos at the same time.

What this clearly indicates is that people are more interested in sex. At the same time, they are more interested in sexual entertainment. However, they don't want to openly talk or discuss about sex.

Is watching porn videos right or wrong? There is no universal answer to this question. Some are explaining pornography by connecting it with the general needs of people, while others are explaining it in a negative way. Some believe that people get sexual pleasure by watching porn videos. In addition, it does not allow sexual violence, rape etc. indirectly. Another says, porn videos only encourage people to engage in sexual activities. Some people become addicted to it, which can be very dangerous.

According to a study, it is claimed that the effects of pornography range from the brain to emotional relationships. According to a study conducted by the American Psychological Association on 'Hyper Sexualized', people who constantly spend more of their time on pornography cannot concentrate on other tasks.

Now let's talk about the sex life between the couple. Does pornography affect the sexual life of the couple below?

Pornography and sex life

It is normal to watch porn videos from time to time. With easy access to the Internet, anyone can access pornography. The argument that it is not necessary to watch porn videos and should be banned does not seem reasonable anymore.

However, this also has its limits. When to watch, how much to watch? It is best to divert attention from it as much as possible. It is better to have other healthy entertainment. Because after watching the porn video, it creates more curiosity. People get addicted to watching porn videos. They start watching videos like this looking for and hiding.

To reach this stage is to become addicted to pornography. Addiction is not good for anything. Too much passion makes a person deviate from the original action.

Especially when young people get addicted to pornography, they forget their work, duty and future. They always want to watch porn videos. It destroys their energetic time. It had a direct effect on the couple's sex life. After watching the porn video, the same kind of expectation increases in the couple. As shown in the video, they start practicing asanas, which may not be suitable in practical life. This gradually leads to sexual dissatisfaction between the couple and their relationship begins to split.

After getting used to watching porn videos, they may also lose their attachment to their partner. So, while it is normal to watch porn videos for fun from time to time, getting used to it can be a hindrance to marital happiness.

Does it make the sex life active or relaxed?

If both are interested in pronography, sometimes they can help to make it active. However, this does not apply to everyone. If you only get excited by watching the video and try to have sex without your partner's consent, it becomes more painful. This increases the sexual dissatisfaction of the couple.

Regardless of how many people understand it, after watching porn videos, couples can get more information about sex or sexual positions. So they can also practice the same. But people's condition, state of mind and situation are different. Everything is not exactly as seen in the video. Therefore, saying that a couple can get sexual pleasure from porn videos can only be an illusion.

Sex life can be disrupted

Often, while watching porn videos, both the couple may not be equally involved in it and may not be compatible. Another thing, if one person is interested in porn videos, it cannot be said that another person will also be interested in it. When a partner watches a porn video and is ready for sex, the partner may not be ready. Because in sex, not only the body, but also the mind should be prepared. Although this is a physical activity, mental presence is very important in it.

When one of the partners gets sexually aroused and starts practicing as seen in the video, it amuses one but causes pain to the other. Relationships meant to establish joy and intimacy are strained by expectations. This kind of sexual behavior brings trouble in the couple's happiness. Their sex life will not be active or beautiful, but rather it can be broken.