Let's listen to the child's feelings

No child can admit that he is weak, that he has lost. However, not all children have the same abilities. You would expect them to be at the forefront of sports, but the child was not interested. Or he may not have tried. So the friend overtook him.

This time you asked them, "Are you only second or third?" Why can't you be the first? '

Does he just not pay attention when you tell him something to do? Or does he just not pay attention when you tell him something to do?

The child had already tried to win. At least participated in sports. This was also a positive thing. You don't have to look at his positive side. He also participated in the exam. Tried to write. Some questions could not be resolved. Even now he had tried. You should be happy with what he did.

But, you are upset that your child did not get first in the exam or did not get good marks. You think your child is weaker than others. And, he expressed this sadness to them. It does not inspire or motivate them. Instead, pressure builds.

That is, your expectations become a mental burden or pressure for children. The pressure never makes progress. Instead, it weakens the child's morale. They lose the creative ability. So you have to understand that what you expect from them is just pressure.

You did not allow the child to dress as they wished. He didn't let me go to play with my friends. When he was hungry, he refused to eat. All this puts pressure on the child. Pressure always makes them weak and discouraged.

Your child failed the exam. He could not surpass everyone in sports. So is your child vulnerable?

You think, 'Yes, they are weak.'

You made your children feel weak because you compared them to others. When you get here, you have to keep in mind that no child can be compared to anyone else. Because children are born with their own talents and abilities. They are born with no innate strength. Their interests, desires, goals are determined by the environment in which they grow up, home environment, friends, family culture, etc. This is also improving their skills.

To understand the child. Read their temperament and tendencies. What do they want What are they interested in? Create a conducive environment accordingly.

Don't think of your child as a robot, a human being who does everything remotely according to your remote. You do not create the child according to your interests, but you create the appropriate environment according to the child's interests.

Your child is human. He has also brought some weaknesses in his birth. He can make human error. Don't assume that your baby needs to be perfect. No one in the world is perfect. Even warriors who set out to conquer the world are not perfect. They also have some shortcomings, weaknesses.

So don't forget to dig into your child's shortcomings. Give the child the environment to grow according to their interests and abilities. Give them freedom. Understand their interests and desires.

Restful sleep and physical health

There are so many dreams that you don't want to forget. And, how many dreams are there that make you an interpreter? After seeing such dreams, we try to satisfy ourselves, 'Dreams are dreams after all.'

But, where does our mind easily understand?

Because many stories connected with dreams are rooted in our minds and brains. We have struggled with what a dream looks like and what its fruit is. We consider some dreams as ominous signs. We consider some dreams as auspicious signs. What is a dream?

Of course, there have been many discoveries in this regard. Some have considered it a reflection of the subconscious mind, some have interpreted it as an event-accident connected with the past and the future, some have compared it to a mere mental state.

When we sleep, we dream. Sleep is a state of physical rest. In this state, some parts of our body rest. Dreaming while sleeping like this is not considered good, especially in terms of physical health.

Deep sleep is essential for good physical health. Deep sleep is that in which no dream disturbs us. However, for various reasons, we are unable to get a good night's sleep. Dreaming Why does the dream appear, how does it appear, what is the effect of it? Even so, owning one is still beyond the reach of the average person.

However, now we will focus on why we have nightmares.

Most of us have a good night's sleep. When the eyes blink, nightmares haunt us. The heartbeats. Our sleep opens. Sometimes this kind of situation cannot be considered serious. However, if such a dream constantly disturbs sleep, it causes mental and physical problems.

Is it because of stress or depression that you have nightmares while you are sleeping? There is room for doubt.

One study says, "Depression is the main reason you have nightmares."

Researchers from the University of Finland and the Finnish National Institute of Health and Welfare conducted a joint cross-sectional survey in 2007 and 2012. The participants in the survey were in the age group of 25 to 74 years.

Researchers found that 3.9 percent of people had nightmares almost every night for the past 30 days. Of those, 4.8 percent were women and 2.9 percent were men. It found that 28.1 percent of people have such dreams due to depression. Besides, 17.1 percent of people had nightmares due to lack of sleep.

The researchers found that this type of nightmare was caused by insomnia, fatigue, depression, and a negative attitude towards oneself.

So he suggested, "If you want to get a good night's sleep, you need to get rid of stress or depression."